“Bradley Cooper has the most perfect eyes I’ve ever seen!”
“George Clooney and Brad Pitt age like fine wine!”
You probably have heard women say these a handful of times and may have had a certain level of jealousy when you did. You may even wonder to yourself how it would feel to be talked about by a woman the same way these men are being talked about. So that leads to the following questions: Have you ever been a woman’s fantasy? If not, then why not?
Believe it or not, many of us model ourselves after these male icons; from the type of hairstyles we get down to the clothes we wear. After all they are the ones who set the trends; why do you think brands pay them so much money to market their stuff? Now why do you think this is? It’s because we subconsciously think that these guys are what majority of the women we are attracted to fantasize about being with.
You probably think that the only way for women to feel that same attraction about you is to look like these male figures as much as you can. But what if there was a way you can tap into a women’s emotions and make a huge impact to where you now become her fantasy without looking like a Hollywood sex symbol? What if there was a way you can get a woman so into you that she constantly thinks about you in every romantic way possible? Seems ludicrous doesn’t it? But the truth is, it’s very possible.
Women are very emotional creatures and their attraction is built on more than just appearance. It goes beyond that and that’s where the saying of “it’s not all about looks” comes from. This is why every now and then you come across “ugly guys” with “hot girlfriends.” I can hear the excuses already; “he probably has loads of money.” Well that “ugly guy” has found a way to tap into that “hot girl’s” emotions and, despite not being the ideal man in terms of looks, her emotional attraction to him overpowers his physical appearance. She became so invested in him, emotionally, that he has become the representation of the male figure in her fantasy.
Let me give you another example. Have you ever heard a woman talk so highly about some guy at work and you ask yourself, “What the hell do they see in that guy?” This guy probably looks like a complete chode but for some reason women can’t get enough of him. You become confused and even jealous because you know you are better looking than this guy yet he is the one getting all the attention, not you.
The secret is in the way he carries himself. It’s the way he holds his head up high and walks with such authority and speaks so confidently that women subconsciously are attracted to. This inner trait that he beholds is more powerful than any physical attribute. So instead of focusing on going to the gym for 4 hours a day or buying more brand name clothing, focus more on improving the way you carry yourself and your overall charisma and you may just find yourself as the star attraction in a woman’s fantasy.
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